Chalk it Up, Charlie!

Every driver will have at least one during their driving career. An accident. What's that? Yes, I was involved in a car accident. It has a high speed head-on crash with a small truck, that was also speeding, whereupon both me and the other driver suffered horrendous injuries and the wreck suddenly combusted creating a small mushroom cloud that nearby onlookers reported a nuclear explosion to the police. I sit now in front of the computer screen, typing with my left pinky and right big toe, paralysed from the waist down and swathed in bandages due to the massive amount of skin burns.



Seriously.


Nah, just joking, I just scraped the bumper of the other car in my haste to leave the carpark. Anyway, I apologised to the person and his first response was "Sorry isn't good enough". After resolving this incident and in hindsight, I began to reflect on that phrase. "Sorry isn't good enough". My first thought was "What is?” Massive aggro? Turning back time? Seppuku? "Sorry isn't good enough". Well it could be true. Sorry may not be good enough but what can be done to reverse it? Nothing. One of the simple facts in life is shit happens. When it happens, there is nothing much you can do but accept whatever bother or trouble is causes you and move on. Instead of getting unnecessarily angry or rage about it, something should be done to resolve it. It seems in life that there are more people who cry 'wolf' rather than offer or carry out solutions to stop the wolf from doing more damage.

Example. The QLD government is planning to build more dams to resolve the water crisis. Seems simply enough. However, when they announced it and a list of possible sites, everyone there went psycho and starting to opposing the idea. Now that is within their right. However, what bothers me is that no person seems to offer an alternative solution to solve the water crisis. They could bring up a thousand reasons not to proceed, but they could not bring up one alternative solution. You have to look at the bigger picture. We have a water crisis and something should be done to stop it effects from digging in deeper. My point is that doing something is better than doing nothing.

Since realising this, I have been trying to think more about the big picture. I have been trying not to let incidents get to me personally. Yelling the crap out of the other guy may be satisfying, but it is not productive. It is difficult yes, and life always likes to put the occasional edge into some random incident. All I could do is shrug and say sorry. Because I could do nothing else. And nothing else seems good enough. Except maybe comprehensive car insurance.

Woah, what a rant. It's been a long time since I ranted. To finish off the tale, the other driver called my dad and said the repair to the scratch on his rear bumper was $2000 and if my dad paid $1500, it will be all good, it would be settled privately. My dad offered $1000 but the guy refused. My dad said he would call back. He was a bit suspicious that the scratch would cost so much. He thought it would be a lot cheaper. Anyway, he called NRMA Insurance and went ahead and lodged a claim. Since I'm under 25, we have to pay a $900 excess, and NRMA deals with the rest, the repairs and stuff. My personal thought is that the other driver was still pissed, and tried to rip us off, so he could have some extra cash in his pocket. There's no proof but I'm just speculating. Instead, we pay $900 to NRMA, his car gets repaired for whatever, and he doesn't get extra cash. It was a good plan, but the price was just too high.

So that little incident is chalked up to experience. Wisdom comes from experience and experience comes from mistakes. I made a mistake and now I'm wiser. About what happens and what to do. My dad was just happy that it was only a scratch and I wasn't involved in some high speed crash. You can fix cars back to perfect condition, but fixing humans is a lot more complicated.